Author Archives: Dr Joseph Russo

About Dr Joseph Russo

Born and raised in Woodland Hills, California; now residing in Laramie, Wyoming (or "Laradise" as we call it, for good reason), with my wife Cindy, our little schnauzer, Macy Mae, and a cat named Markie. I hold a BBA from Cal State Northridge and an MBA from the University of Nevada at Reno. My first career was in business, for some 25+ years. In 2007, I shifted gears and entered the helping professions as a mental health counselor. I earned an MA in Educational Psychology and a Doctorate (PhD) in Counselor Education and Supervision. In my spare time I enjoy mentoring young and not-so-young business and non-profit executives as they go about growing their businesses and presence. I also teach part-time at the University of Wyoming, in both the Colleges of Education and Business.

Tearing Down Statues: The Height of Self-Centered Thinking

Our youth have decided that various memorials to past events are offensive and are demanding that they be torn down. Nothing new – the Soviets did it in their attempt to re-write the past. Now American youth are doing it. … Continue reading

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A Bourgeois Prejudice: Thoughts on Tattoos and How They May be Killing You

I don’t have any tattoos. You can check if you want 🙂 First of all, they cost money, don’t they? Secondly, I cringe at sight of them; seriously, and when I see one, I default to a projection of uncleanliness. … Continue reading

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Learning is Supposed to Feel Uncomfortable

It is said (and I say it, often) that therapists, mentors and coaches “disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed.” I couldn’t agree more! Peter Bregman – a coach – describes his experiences in a recent workshop: The process our … Continue reading

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Switch to a Dumb Phone and Get Smart(er)

As many of my readers know, I don’t allow the use of technology in my classrooms. This includes smartphones, tablets, computers … whatever.  Instead, I encourage them to listen to me and to their fellow students as we digest important … Continue reading

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Russo’s Alphabet Relationship Theory

In my work as a life coach, and occasionally in my work as an executive coach, I am asked, “what kind of relationship should I strive for?” My reaction is usually, “wait, what?” But then I remember that relationship health … Continue reading

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Go Forth and Fail

In my classes, usually on the first day, I acquaint students with one of “Dr Russo’s Maxims” – that, as freshmen, “you won’t necessarily know what you are doing, but go forth and fail anyway. I cannot know that you … Continue reading

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Validation

Years ago, while pursuing a graduate degree in counseling psychology, a class I was in was shown a delightful little movie entitled “Validation.” I recommend watching it before continuing with this (rather long) blog post about what it takes to … Continue reading

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Relax, at least you’re an American

Sometimes, the advent of July 4th gets me down. I am traveling on university business and as I sit in a hotel room in the middle of Germany – itself the epicenter of once-fanatical and now renewed nationalism – I … Continue reading

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Please Delete Facebook – And Here’s Another Reason Why

My regular readers know that for several years now I have recommended quitting Facebook. In my doctoral research, I came to read dozens of studies about how this social media site was contributing to a rise in depression diagnoses, an … Continue reading

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Resilience in the Face of Harsh Criticism – Here’s a CURE

Most of us have been “gobsmacked” at some point in our life. Learning how to deal with it is crucial I love that word – gobsmacked. I learned it whilst living in Australia a few years back. Basically, it means … Continue reading

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