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On Fear, Anxiety, and That Sense of Being Overwhelmed: Working Hard to be a Failure
I have been reflecting on a couple of therapy sessions I had today and upon the homework I’d given my clients. It all began when my first client revealed their feeling of being overwhelmed. Then, later, another client expressed the … Continue reading
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Re-Reading Seneca
Glancing through a book I have on the life of Lucius Annaeus Seneca (or, most simply, Seneca), I am reminded of all that this great Stoic has to teach us in the modern day. Born nearly 2,000 years ago, this was … Continue reading
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Smile and the Whole World Smiles Along
This post will be about smiling. You know – the opposite of frowning. In fact, I am smiling as I write this. My wife says I have an impish smile. I think she has a radiant smile. But I know … Continue reading
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Fair Fighting Rules
I am often asked, “What is fair in the fights my husband and I have?” Let’s face it, every invention of man must carry some rules to help define it. Think of the operating manuals you get with the coffee … Continue reading
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Enantiodromia – Moving to Extremes
Enantiodromia – or, how to play on the see-saw all by yourself. This article examines a number of subjects including Carl Jung’s notion of enantiodromia, cognitive dissonance, with a little Rogerian incongruity thrown in for good measure. As always, let … Continue reading
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Depression Could be A Physical Reaction to Stress
Some theorists in psychotherapy have long held that depression is choice. To some extent, they are right insofar as attitude is a key determinant to overall mental health and well-being. William Glasser, pictured here, posited that depression could be recast … Continue reading
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Walk around naked at home? Do you swear? Turns out, you’re probably pretty smart!
Intelligent people are more likely to swear and walk around naked at home, according to a new study. Quizzing about 1,000 people on 400 typical behaviors, researchers at the University of Rochester found that extroverts are prone to telling dirty … Continue reading
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:-) What? Are you stupid or something?
Smiling emoticons in work related e-mails portray low competence, according to a new study. This was simply too good not to put up on my blog immediately. The paper, published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science on July 31st, also suggested such … Continue reading
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Circles of Competence
In the professions of counseling and executive mentoring we often speak of our scope of competence. What that means is this: we know what we can do and work to expand that scope, but we also understand what we cannot … Continue reading
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Most of us are Amateurs
Most of Us are Just Amateurs I am borrowing this from Brain Food and wanted to have it up on my Blog for posterity. I intend to use it in my work as both a counselor and executive mentor, for … Continue reading
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